Sunday, July 3, 2011

really?

Waking up late = bad daughter in law. Let me provide some context.

When my family used to go to Korea, my mom was WORKED when we were with my dad's family. It's not like my grandma is mean - she's a very sweet lady. But because of the culture, my mom would wake up really early with my grandma, make a feast for breakfast, then clean up, then help clean the house, then prepare for the next meal.

Sure, I'm Americanized so that's not expected of me...but I still feel the pressure because I know what it "should" be like.

I woke up with a start today to find that James was not next to me. My first thought, "Shoot, he went down to breakfast before me!" I jumped out of bed to check if he was downstairs but before I got there, I saw this through mama mun's bedroom door:















mother & son heart to heart.
boy at age 2-10ish : heartwarming, sweet
boy at age 30 : let's just forget ground rule #2

7 comments:

  1. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA OHHHHH MYYYY GOOODNESSSSS!

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  2. LOLOLOL! that drawing is pretty SWEEET. U guys draw like lil kids. Stankin' RUB it. Sis, I go INTO my parents bed 1st thing in the am. U should join us one day. LOL

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  3. thanks for the illustration, it was so necessary hahahhaha!

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  4. I totally understand what you're going through! My mom didn't have a MIL so she doesn't know any of the Korean traditions of what I should do, but I feel like since I am Korean, I have these hidden expectations from John's mom. But of course John says, "No, my mom doesn't have any expectations and understands you're 'Americanized'" Psh....boys are dumb sometimes...LOL

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  5. @littlefury... so funnyyyyyyyyy.

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  6. This drawing is hilarious! You're awesome!

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